What are some things a man should know about a woman?
STEP 1:
Position yourself comfortably between her legs and let her know that you want her to relax and take her time. Not to worry. I understand the whole jaw and neck discomfort thing. Encouraging her to take her time will actually get her to orgasm quicker.
STEP 2:
Spread her legs in an authoritative way. Strong, yet in a way that communicates you are able to be trusted; that this will be fun. Do it in a way that says, “I am man, you are woman”. Push them apart and look at her with desire; not like mugshot desire, but with warmth and appreciation in your eyes.
STEP 3:
Find her clit
Gently push back the hood of her clit to reach her more sensitive spots (this is a master move; I know, who knew, right?)
Pause for but a second as you do this. She will be losing her fucking mind in anticipating you going directly to her bulls eye and boy is she ready for it after all that petting.
STEP 4:
Lightly lick the tip of her clit. Pause for a second (no longer). Wait for it. She will likely moan or push her hips toward you signaling for more (making you feel like king of the pussy).
STEP 5:
Start licking and sucking on her clit all the while tracking her points of extreme arousal. Now, this will likely feel like tension in her body, but not the kind where you pick up an unfriendly dog, more like the kind that writhes and moves toward you.
This is a good time for me to assure you that it’s totally okay to combine your tongue with your fingers to play with her clit (be sure to keep your nails well manicured and do not cut her). This is a great combo and provides her with different levels of stimulation for which she’ll be grateful. It also gives your jaw a rest.
STEP 6:
At this point it is key that you observe her for cues into what she most enjoys and then match your intensity with hers; go easier and lighter when she’s at the beginning stages of excitement and increase your intensity as her excitement grows. At times she may cycle through various levels of intensity. For you, this will feel like waves breaking on a shore. Ride those waves, baby. Follow that rhythm of intensity and she will produce that orgasmic tidal wave.
MASTER MOVE: If you can’t seem to figure out how she best likes it, confidently say, “Tell me just how you like it.”. This is different from asking, “How do you like it?”. Do you get that nuance? One sounds confident and the other makes you sound like a pussy.
STEP 7:
Once you can tell she’s lubricated, push two fingers into her canal and stroke her G spot (feels spongy) with a come hither motion. At this point, your mouth is stimulating her clit and your fingers are either doing that come hither motion on her G spot, or moving in and out of her writhing pussy. So awesome, right? You are THE MAN.
STEP 8:
Now bring it home. You’ll have her writhing, moaning, and saying yeeessss! The more intense her response, the longer you stay in that position. You can continue to do whatever that technique is with more intensity, but whatever you do, do not stop or change positions when she is in this final stage.
STEP 9:
Maintain your intensity throughout her orgasm. Ride that clit like a rodeo cowboy. Do not let that clitoris slip, gentlemen.
STEP 10:
When you feel that she has completely released her orgasm, put your fingers inside her and feel the wet, hot, gush of pleasure you’ve inspired.
You are THE KING.
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